11.30.2011

the story of b&a {part 4}

{promise this one will be shorter than the previous parts of the story} 
Tiny recap {but if you're looking for the previous parts of the story, head back to part 1, part 2, and part 3}. 

On November 27, 2010, I married the most handsome guy I know.

He wore a tux.

I wore a simple but pretty ivory gown.

 And then we met at our First Look spot. 

Our wedding party joined us for pictures after we were done looking at each other.

I walked down the isle with both my dad and stepdad to Only Hope

We were married in front of a Christmas tree. 

We walked into our wedding reception to Can You Feel It? by Michael Jackson.

Our first dance was to Marry Me by Train.


We shared a dance with our parents.


And we danced the night away.

It was my favorite day ever.


back in the game

My blog has been on a bit of a hiatus. 
We were away for the past 3 weekends.
I've been go.go.go. at work.
And I had no me time. {wah wah wah}
So I got sick.
I've been sick for the past 7 days.
Missed the last 3 days of work. 
but...
I'm back.
And I have quite a few things to share.
Things like: b&a part 4, Sean & Brittney's wedding, our trip to Philadelphia, and our first anniversary.
Yesterday was Bry's birthday, and I'm still getting caught up on sleep though. 
So the blog will have to wait. 
Just a little more.

Happy Wednesday!


11.24.2011

thankful...

I'm thankful...
...for my job.
...for my family's generosity and love.
...for my friends' support and encouragement.
...for my husband's humor, sensitivity, and love.
...for the good health of my loved ones.
...for the ability to pray in my work place.
and last, but certainly not least...
...for my Lord who has blessed me with all of these things. 

Psalm 107:1 says, Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; his love endures forever. 

Happy Thanksgiving!

11.21.2011

a whirlwind

My brain hurts. Like really hurts...

Here's the scoop...
We've been home for about 24 hours.
 I worked today and then went shopping for a few things- no luck for all that I went to buy. 
I just unpacked my suitcase and started laundry, only to pack again tomorrow for a 5 day trip. 
On Wednesday, we're leaving at 12:00 {right at dismissal} to drive 4.5 hours {hopefully with little traffic} to get to a rehearsal dinner on Wednesday night in Lancaster, PA. 
Thursday is Thanksgiving with our friend's family. 
Friday's the big wedding- for which I couldn't find a dress today. 
On Saturday, we're driving from Lancaster to Philly {1-1.5 hours} to celebrate our one year anniversary {which is Sunday}. 
Sunday, we're due to drive home {hopefully again with no traffic, but doubtful for the Sunday after Thanksgiving}. 
We're going to watch the video of our wedding and eat the top tier of our cake. 
Next Monday's back to work and Tuesday is hubby's birthday {which shall be celebrated the next weekend- as well as get our Christmas tree}! 

Can you tell how scattered and dizzy my brain feels right now? I can't wait for a day where I don't have to do anything at all! Lots of pictures and posts to come soon!

11.20.2011

the story of b&a {part 3}

In case you missed part 1 & part 2... 

Our story left off with Bry home in Connecticut, and me at college, wrapping up my senior year of tough classes and student teaching. I had told Bry that I did not want to be proposed to during my student teaching. He agreed.

My spring semester was pure craziness. I was basically working a full-time teaching job- without getting paid AND writing out every detail of each lesson plan {trust me, you don't do this once you actually start teaching!} I was a busy girl but made time for my favorite frequent visitor.

Student teaching wrapped up May 4th, 2010. I was thrilled to be finishing up college! Last few papers/projects were all working themselves out and I was so flipping excited to be two weeks away from living in the same state as the best boy ever!

Bry was due to come up that Friday for my Senior Formal. There were so many fun events and parties to go to. So here I am getting ready to go out to a friends house on Wednesday night, and what do I find outside my apartment? That's right. The guy showed up to surprise me and spend some time with me. I was so excited!

Senior Formal night came and we went into Boston. Our senior formal was being held at Top of the Hub - right at the very top of the Prudential Center. It was so much fun! Great food {yes, I still remember the lobster ravioli}, great dancing, & great views- the Yankees were playing at Fenway and won!
look behind me for fenway!

So, we have a great night in Boston. The next day, Saturday, May 8th, we planned to go into Boston for one last time before I graduated and moved home. So off we went back into Boston. Our plan was to go out to dinner at a cute little restaurant to celebrate my graduation. 

We'd gotten into Boston a bit too early for our reservation, but I wanted to walk around Faneuil Hall. The weather was not agreeing though. So we went into a little pub for a few beers at Black Rose Pub. We sat down to watch the Yankees game. Now, I'm not one to want to watch many sports games on TV, however, after walking around cobblestone streets in heels, I wasn't about to protest. 

We started having a discussion about getting engaged. I had made a comment the night before about "Oh, I'm just waiting for my next piece of jewelry he gives me..." He wasn't a fan of this little comment. He said, "Ali, I know you want us to get engaged, and I do, too. But you've got to stop making comments like that. This pressure isn't fun for me. Our time will come." 

Well, that made me think our engagement was waaaay off. Like 6 months off. I said okay and knew to drop the subject. Meanwhile, this kid kept having to go to the bathroom. Bry always has to pee, so I didn't find anything unusual about this. 

So it was almost time for our reservation. We walk to the Little Italy section of Boston. We ate at this restaurant called Mamma Maria. Pricey, but the boy said it was worth it because we were celebrating. 

look straight up! ^ our table was right next to this little balcony by the staircase

We sat down and I see flowers on the table. Cute little display of purple and pink roses. He goes, "Babe, those are yours." And I said, "No, they aren't..." And he goes, "Yes, they are." I argue back, just because my guy has given me flowers maybe five times in the last 7 years {not to knock him, he's sweet}. I did look around and saw that there weren't any other tables with flowers so I sheepishly said, "Wow, thanks!" And we sat down.

He'd brought me a card and a gift for graduation. Of course, the card was full of mush and sweet words that I love to read. Then, he gave me a necklace. A pretty necklace that I really liked. It seemed to be weighted strangely though, and flipped around when it was on. So he suggested we return it and get something different.

Our meal came and we enjoyed our delicious dinner. We'd ordered a bottle of wine with dinner as well, and this really makes B have to take trips to the bathroom, so he kept getting up and down like a nut. He went again and on his way back, he sat down in his chair, and then stood right up and got down on one knee. I looked over at him, on one knee, holding a gorgeous ring out at me. He said, "Will you marry me?"

My eyes immediately got teary, even though I didn't even realize what was going on. I thought he was playing a trick on me. Could this actually be our proposal? He just said to stop talking about it.. How could this be? I started babbling on about this joke. I started saying, "Stop messing with me. This isn't funny. I'm serious, don't joke with me", all the while my eyes are blurry from tears and I'm trying to process this whole situation. 

Then I stopped. I just stopped and started to believe him. I sat there and started to take it all in. Is this real? Could this be true? My thoughts were interrupted by his words, "...Ali?" I snapped back into reality. This was really real. Goodness! I quickly said "Yes, of course I'll marry you!" We hugged and kissed. And both of us couldn't believe this had actually happened. 

The restaurant brought us champagne and congratulated us. We realized that we were being stared at by a bunch of other people who were all clapping for us. Bry went and sat back in his chair and sent out a bulk text saying "I'm engaged!" Which then caused about 40 other Congrats-texts. 

We left the restaurant and snapped the one good photo we have from that night...
can we get any happier?!

{Turns out- all that peeing B did, well, that was just to check to make sure the ring was still in his pocket. And nerves. I'm pretty sure he was a bit nervous. And the comment about waiting for "our time"... And the necklace that didn't work... And the flowers on the table... That was all to throw me off. And he did.}

We got into the car and made all of our phone calls and when we arrived back in my neighborhood, our friends were all gathered for a mini-congrats party! What a perfect night!

4 days after student teaching was completed and we were engaged. And so the wedding planning began...

11.16.2011

the sweetest brother in the world

{taken about 6.5 years ago, just before leaving for prom}

My little brother is just about the sweetest thing ever. He walked right up to his pastor on Sunday morning, while we were away, and said, "Will you pray for Bryan, my brother-in-law, and his grandpa? He's really sick in the hospital." The pastor shook his hand and said, "Will do." What a precious thing to do!

 Did I mention he's 11?! 

Love that kid. to. pieces.

11.15.2011

francis johnston

This past weekend, Bryan and I made a trip to upstate New York. Yes, we went to Niagara falls, but the main reason we made the trip was to visit Bry's grandpa. We learned Grandpa J wasn't doing very well. We'd been intending to make a trip up to Rochester for a couple of months now and realized we needed to go.

Our plan was to go up and visit Grandpa J. We found out on Wednesday, the day before we left, that Grandpa J was going into the hospital- that his kidneys were beginning to fail.

Bry and I were able to go and visit him when he returned to the nursing home on Friday. We had a feeling this weekend would be the last time we'd see him, so Bryan did everything in him to show his love to his grandpa.

Frank and Charlotte {Bry's parents} and Brad and Jacki {Bry's brother and sister-in-law} came up to visit as well. We spent many hours just telling stories in Grandpa's room and keeping him company, his pain meds kept him sleeping a lot.

Grandpa J passed away two nights ago. He was a small-town man who knew everyone, and no one has a bad word to say about him. A man who was a veteran, a man who was a hero in several ways, and a man who influenced and shaped the life of my husband. For this, I will be always grateful. Rest in Peace, Grandpa J.

We love you, Grandpa J.

11.14.2011

niagara to buffalo, please!

This past weekend, we drove to upstate New York to visit Grandpa Johnston. While we were there, we took a little detour to Niagara Falls. I've always wanted to go and we had some time before Grandpa was available. So Bry said, "Let's go!" The drive took about an hour and a half. We found a station playing Christmas music and we were more than content. 

The weather was very strange that day. It was mostly cloudy, but there was visible blue sky. The clouds were dark, but the sunshine was abundant. We were driving through rain, sleet, and snow to get to Niagara falls. The pictures tell it all. 

Niagara Falls

I'm pretty sure it was past peak foliage there, but these trees were breathtaking!



Found this sign. I'm pretty sure I need to hang it over my bed {since I have a love affair with my bed}

"Okay, Bryan, let's go..."

We walked on over to the water, the rapids were so scary. We took a trolley later on in the trip and he mentioned that the rapids run about 30 miles an hour. I wouldn't try swimming in there.. Nope.


We saw a rainbow from all of the mist. 

The colors are so cool! The water is sea foam green. 

{love my new hat, even though you almost can't see my eyes}

hubs took a break from taking so many photos to get his own picture taken...

a cooler view of the falls

I couldn't believe how breathtaking these falls were. At one point, I asked Bry how many people he thought had died at Niagara {and just googled to try to find out}. I didn't come up with a solid answer, but the moral is "Don't cross over any fences, guard rails, or blockades. They are there for a reason, people."

Caught: hubs heading to the bathroom. 
{this man has the smallest bladder known to man}


We wanted to talk to see Horseshoe Falls as well, so we walked a ways to see the other "falls". We needed to cross a long bridge to do so. 


post-birdpoop {almost} mishap

can you tell it's about 45 degrees outside? we were chilly!

and became much happier after a coffee/hot cocoa stop.

love the mist. 

beautiful.

We were loving our little trip to Niagara Falls. Something we hadn't planned on doing, but we had a great time! However, we were very cold and thought we had taken plenty of pictures at this point. Upon leaving, Bry said, "Hey, we're only about a half hour from Buffalo, I want some wings!" 

We went to "Anchor Bar: Home of the Original Chicken Wings". Bry was in heaven. He literally could not wait to get his hands on some wings. 
There it is. As seen on "Man Vs. Food"...

love the anchor in the cement!

bar decor

inside.

still freezing from spending two hours outside in mist and wind

content with a beer in hand

Wings for B. I'm not a big wing fan so I indecisively went with chicken fingers and a grilled cheese 

happy boy. love the wing sauce on his lips

whoops! all gone!

With all said and done, we had a great day trip into Niagara & Buffalo!

11.13.2011

the story of b&a {part 2}

I left off of {part 1} with when Bry and I started dating in October 2004. Bry was in his senior year, I was a junior. We had so much fun that year, with bonfires, school events, trips to the beach, and banquets aka proms. We had a ball.





Of course, there was an elephant in the room. He's a senior. He's leaving to go to college.

In my mind, thoughts were constantly running wild. What's college going to be like for him? What does he want out of his college experience? Does he want a girlfriend while he's away? Or does he want a new start? Will he find someone else? Yes. I'm a worry-er. And yes, I had these thoughts frequently.

We'd occasionally talk about it, debating on what to do. We ended up agreeing on "We'll stay together. If it works, it works. If not, then it's not meant to be. Whatever happens, we'll both be okay." And that's how we left it.

I guess I'll torture myself and write about the day he actually left for college. I remember the month of August, I had a knot in my stomach and a rock in my throat. Every time we were together, I was always close to crying, for fear of the unknown. I was not a happy camper, but I tried to make the best of the time we had together {I write that like he was dying or something, he was just moving 3 hours away Ali!}.

I showed up to his house the morning before he left for school. His whole family was going up to Massachusetts to drop him off. I showed up and I'm pretty sure I cried the whole hour and a half I was there. I tried to be strong and didn't want to ruin his excitement for going to college, but man was it tough. I remember that final hug, the sobs that accompanied it {from both of us- he was sad to leave me too}, and the final walk away. He went to get in the car with his family and I sat on their front porch and tried to smile but all I could do was bawl my eyes out. After they drove off, I went upstairs and laid on his bed for about an hour and then took every cologne and every shirt that he didn't pack to take to school. And I went and started my senior year of high school.

We were both good about devoting time to the phone and AIM to chat. But I missed him. I REALLY missed him. He'd become my best friend in about a year. I'd never felt this way about anyone- not that I'd dated many guys, but still. I missed him a lot.

I had senior year and college applications and friends to keep me busy, and he did his best to come home and visit as often as he could. Bry was a trooper. He'd catch rides with random people to come home and see me and the fam.

And throughout the fall, I constantly was hoping to make it into the college he was at. My parents didn't like the idea. And I knew I was going to get crap for it. But I applied, and my acceptance letter came on December 23. It was the best Christmas present ever. This acceptance letter made it that much easier to get through the 2nd semester of him being away.

Ya ya, you can tell me I "followed" him and I'm sure many people believe that, and maybe that was part of it. But this school fit my criteria for college. And I'm so happy with my choice.

The second half of senior year flew by and he was having a ball at school. Once May of 2006 rolled around, he was back and we were so psyched. Summer together, and then college in the fall. Woohoo!

Then came college time for Ali, and I won't drag out the whole 3 years of college for us together. It was full of classes, friends, chapels, Late Night {college grill for frappe's and mozzarella sticks} trips to the mall, parties, and formals. We had an absolute blast.




Bry's graduation rolled around and we were looking at long distance again. I was not a happy camper once again. Bry had to move home and I had to be back in the fall for my senior year of college- full of hard classes and my student teaching practica.


This time around, I didn't have as much fun to distract me, just work, work, work. However, we were older and both had cars to make trips back and forth. He came up and visited me probably twice a month and I'd go home for one weekend too, so it was really just the weekdays that sucked.

Both of us were seriously in love during this time. We were more in love than ever before. And we learned to be grateful for the time we had together. Fridays would come around and we'd be so happy, but Sundays would come and we'd get the "Sunday Blues". And every Sunday when we'd say goodbye, I'd be in tears. I learned that I am not good at goodbyes.

I'm not going to lie, marriage was the hot topic. At the small college we attended, it seems like everyone gets married a month after graduation, if not before. I was slightly frustrated because it felt like we'd been together for forever, and all these people were getting married around us, who had been dating 6 months. I'm no expert, but it takes longer than 6 months to get to know someone enough to marry them.  So we talked about marriage. We knew we were headed in that direction. We just needed to have the right timing. We both knew that we wanted to finish school before we got married. College is crazy enough. So we waited and waited. But to be honest, I was getting a little impatient.

My student teaching practica were very challenging. I had a full time "internship" and was still in a college class at night. Teaching is no easy task, and student teaching is even harder because you have to do double the work. I had told Bryan not to propose during student teaching because I wanted to be able to enjoy my engagement time. I knew that if he proposed during student teaching, my work would slack because I'd want to be planning the wedding the whole time.

So he waited. And I waited... And as frustrating as this time was, it was a time where we grew so much in love.


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